It's a Cold Christmas....

Good evening!

I want to get my blog updated so that I can update in the now! I left off with my christmas story with James.

I struggled though exams at the beginning of december, it was tough not having Chris by my side anymore but he was just a dead weight. He wanted my back clearly but I didn't want anything to do with that. I ended up going to the OC one night with my friends as my friend S had won a free stay at the Canad Inns Fort Garry, So we did that. We were there the entire night and at the end of the night I was dancing with some guy and he was shuffling around in his pocket. I thought he was going to try and pull a smooth move and ask for my number but he put both hands behind my back and I felt his grip tighten. I saw him pull a bottle out with a strange needle thing and I ran. Yes, someone tried to drug me.... It was possibly one of the most ridiculous things that has ever happened to me. I ended up spraining my ankle in the process of trying to weave though the crowd (Also some guy got stabbed there... great security canad inns). The guy kept trying to talk to me saying he don't know why I ran and I told security and they did absolutely nothing. It was so fucking stupid. So that was the day before James came back.

James came back from T.O the saturday. I was supposed to go to Cowboys for my friends birthday but I could barely walk from my ankle, and I actually ended up leaving work way early that day. Anyways, back to Cowboys, I didn't go because I couldn't stand and also Chris was going to be there. I had told Chris that James might show up at cowboys just to warn him and chris decided it would be fun to bring "back up" with him. Aka big friends so he could fight James. Chris said he will always hate James beacuse in his eyes James stole me away from him, which is total shit but that's okay. Chris likes to think everything is about him, and he still does. (more on that later.) So out of fear of seeing a fight over nothing and not being able to stand I ended up going to Earls for James' "get back in town" get together. He's an earls enthusiast as he likes to call it. Gah. So yup go to Earls and it was kind of weird, I mean, we had agreed to date and see what happens when he got back. He sat next to me the whole night and it was okay. At the end of the night a girl I didn't know showed up and ran up and hugged James. I wanted to say bye but I wasn't going to wait around so I left. I found out from him that the girl was Julia, a girl he used to date and she was a loony toon.

The next day he tried to talk to S on msn and confessed to her that Julia was supposed to drive him home and she ended up taking him back to her appartment in Steinbach. yeah.... they apparently slept in the same bed (with clothes on) but the fact he told my best friend first before was dumb. I for some reason, gave him another chance beacuse he said he talked to his sister and he was serious about dating me. He was over Julia, he swore up and down. Julia and James dated back in May before I started working with him so I had never met her in my life. All of my co-workers thought she was crazy because she started dancing on the tables at Earls one time. I thought he was sincere about being over her so we agreed to go out for dinner and catch a movie on monday.

We went out on the date and it was good. Can't complain haha. We agreed to hang out again on Friday. He kept flaking on me though and it started getting excessive. Plans would fall though 3 hours before we were supposed to hang out. I couldn't pin him down for anything. The last straw was when he showed up to Pharoahs on Boxing day and then just flipped out on S because she told him to say hi to me. He wandered around the bar by himself and finally I went and talked to him and reamed him out saying he was being dramatic and if I was willing to be apart from him for 3 more months, but still committed to him he should be giving me more than the time of day. Apparently, that's too hard for him so I told him I was done with him. He had wanted me to spend new years with him but clearly that wasn't happening now. This massive fight happened 4 days before.

So New Years I end up spending with my friends and S's boyfriend was with James since I work with him too. N called us from Joey's that night saying that Julia showed up with James. What the hell, I though he was over her??? what a lie that was. The best part was that S talked to James and we could hear Julia in the background FREAKING OUT because she thought it was me takling to James. She demanded to talk to me, I could hear her shrieking though the phone. What's great is I've never met her and she hates me beacuse I apparently "Stole James" from her.... even though they had been broken up since may... and it was decemeber... okay then...
James and I parted ways since he went back to T.O in January and I continued on with my life and 2nd semester in University.

I started dating Brian in january and it was great. We clicked right away and dated until May, when he broke up with me for some unknown reason but the best part is, he stepped on my laptop screen and broke it in february which is about $400 and I also bought him shorts and he said he'd pay me back ASAP, then broke up with me. So in total he owes me about $600. And he refuses to talk to me. Or Pay me back. Awesome. That's all I'll say about Brian since I have no desire to give him the time of day and there wasn't much action or "drama" there. There were some events that happened during the course of me dating him which I will cover in my next Blog!

As Always,
K